I’m a survivor too!

Above me and my son Lucas on the day of our great escape from the UK in June 2007.

lac10001 LAC review- Proof social services request courts to remove children from domestic violence victims!

Today is 7th March 2010 I am at home in southern Ireland attempting to write my first blog, with the children in bed it occurs to me what does a person write in a blog who is already writing a book?

Well i am sure to be careful about writing too much here or the publishers will not want me! but many people have asked why I have not written a blog as it seems to be all the rage whether you are a ‘professional’ or just an average human being like myself.

One year ago i was gearing up for the biggest court case of my life after being a fugitive from the British for over 2 years. The year before  i was settling into Spanish life, the year before that I was planning my escape from England with my son.

Looking back on the past few years of my life seems surreal almost like a dream and everyday I wonder how all this became possible to someone who did absolutely nothing to deserve it. I can’t say I have been the ‘perfect mother’  unless your Mary Poppins in the real world it just isn’t possible but I can say iv been a damn good mother where others may have failed. Of course anybody who has been at the end of a social workers wrath will know the social work team try their hardest to make out you are not a good mother.

As a survivor of domestic violence , anybody who is a  survivor have been through a journey of self discovery, learning the art of protection and being successful through a time that was very traumatic and one that could possibly have ended life completely. Not only am i a survivor of DV as are many other women , I am also a survivor of the family court system in the UK. That is my biggest achievement, if you think DV takes it out of you emotionally and financially to be abused by the state, your country of birth and by the very people your taxes pay to protect you is a double whammy.

So if you are slightly confused to exactly how I became a fugitive and how I had to steal my son back from the state to save him and indeed my unborn child from forced adoption I invite you to look closely at the scanned paperwork shown.  Now if you have the attitude that a mother who will not separate from her abusive partner and that her children might be better off in care and possibly given a brand new set of parents, you would be thinking along the lines of a social worker. So if I told you that I had been separated from my ex for 7 months and there had been no domestic violence for longer, moved 300 miles away from where he lived would you be surprised and a tad confused by the state kidnapping of my then 4-year-old son Lucas Wileman? well the answer to that is one of conspiracy to kidnap a child comes to mind involving Devon and Market Harborough social services.

Over the years I have stepped outside the box and tried to piece together how I came about having been accused of ‘failure to protect’ when I reported domestic violence and how the evidence was collected and stacked up in a family court to be used against me. Until you start to look and research into the child protection system itself it is only then you get an insight into how social services operate and why the current social policies and practices are doing more harm than good. The Government has a lot to answer for along with the house of lords for passing pathetic laws and constantly adding to the children’s act 1989 to include things like ‘emotional harm’ and carrying on with adopting children out once on full care orders against the birth parents wishes and with no more contact possibly for the rest if their lives.All paid for by YOU the tax payer, over the course of blogs i will show you exactly how the government ‘launders’ tax payers money to line their own pockets and that of private run agencies and their  ’carers’ !.

I do not tend to spread the word on who I help or what I do for others, only those who I help will know how committed I am to my cause and pursuit of change in family law .  I have come across all types of people from all walks of life and believe you should give everyone a chance…My advice is,  this is a very negative and depressing business when dealing with people who have had their children taken. In general negative people breed negativity and sometimes it is best to steer well clear if you feel something is not quite right, being a parent you become better on judging peoples character. We all go through life feeling negative at some point but there are some with whom it becomes an illness or obession they cannot turn away from. I did not get this far with negative people who are in desperate need of a personality transplant, I left them behind in the UK!. I am however here through extremely kind,generous positive people all over the world who no matter how big or small made an impact on my life, kept me going and kept me safe and strong. A special thankyou to those people whom I seek permission to name in due course, however i will not be seeking permission to name and shame those who brought corruption and conspiracy into my life.

A short message to LyndaMac who has been a massive emotional support a truly caring lady who at times does not mince her words but brings home the reality of the situation which should benefit you. This lady has suffered like myself and many others a terrible injustice and barbaric treatment by the social services , doctors and the courts in her town of Luton and separated from her son who turned out to have cancer. You will not believe how many parents have had their children taken because they took them to the doctors or hospital one too many times…accused of  fabricating illness (by ‘professionals or even ex partners).. yes the world has gone mad!

Stay positive you either sink or swim!!

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